Have you been this person who has always make everyone else around you comfortable?
This 2023 is going to change a little bit, this is going to be a year about YOU making YOU comfortable!
Not necessarily at the expense of other people, not doing things just for yourself nor willingly hurt or block or upset other people, not at all.
But if you're somebody who has had a bit too much of a focus on the outer world or a bit too much of a focus on the people around you the people outside you 2023 is going to demand, that you get back into your center, that you get back into your spine and this will be delivered to you in these ways.
Depending on who you are, how it's showing up for you, will depend on the speed you want to go, and then it's going to be a really big call, for some shaking you to the core.
You are here for a reason, we all are, these are epic times for us. And now that Saturn in Pisces and the full moon in Virgo coming up, offer a powerful combination of spiritual and practical energies, sometimes we are blessed with synchronistic events that remind us of the beauty and power of the cosmos!
Now, this alignment with the full moon on March the 7th in Virgo and the entrance of Saturn into Pisces will shape our society and lives for the next three years.
With all these changes happening, how the source wants us to get back into ourselves is very different, for some it is through certain opportunities, relationships, situations, seemingly changing against our will or against our expectation things that you thought were certainties in your life, suddenly are going to change in a way that might cause an emotional reaction for you.
Any emotional reactions usually are histories of our past life that actually do not exist anymore, only in our memory.
Now,… and this is for all of us, we will be put to the test, we will be asked if these emotions are the present or if they are history. Because 95% of the time emotional reactions are historic, that we like to bring to the present and live and relieve them repeatedly.
Its important to know what's going on in our present, however when you have a big emotional reaction my recommendation is, instead of putting yourself down or blaming others for your current situation, maybe noticing what’s triggering this emotion and how many times have you felt this before, and what were the previous situations and also what's the theme or the repeating pattern of emotions for you here that you need to learn from… so by recognizing it and allowing yourself to know where those emotions truly come from, you can be putting yourself back into yourself again.
In 2023 if you feel in any way out of yourself maybe even just a bit, maybe you've already done a lot of work around this, but there's going to be a little refinement this coming year, relationship, situations or things that you thought were very certain, that you felt very held in, all of a sudden they change, they shift, they disappear or they push you away.
In the moment that can bring up emotion whether it's abandonment, rejection, disappointment, anger and other negative emotions. Clearly emotions form your past experiences who created a history in your mind…
So often as a human, when we're going through these feelings and emotions, it doesn't always feel great. I certainly have my times when I feel miserable, but what I am always reminded of, is the why’s I have been pushed out of that friendship, work situation, relationship, and most of the time is because we are also processing some of our own rejection or abandonment, betrayed and more… always in order to be acknowledged…. I now recognize it and see more and more of this in me and everyone around me, and yes, we're getting back into our center in order to change, to advance in our awareness in order to make the shift of consciousness, so we all have a chance to survive this epic times of change.
So, remember, if you are being pushed out of that friendship, job, relationship, losing control and or other, only means that this emotional eruption or a wounding for you is only a great opportunity for your own awakening, an opportunity to shed the old and come out clean again.
Yes there will be layers of that emotional wound, ouchis and some hurts in the process, yes you will be going back and forth many times, but also in those times of uncertainty a great complexity you will know that there is no need to wrestle with any of that, because you don't need to know the why’s anymore, you just need to trust, and deep in your fear know that it's OK, and will be OK.
The universe knows, your soul knows, you're only playing to be a human, who doesn't know everything, let go of that need to control, pretending you do know everything.
If you don’t trust the process and learn to deal with that emotional discomfort produced by your mind, if you don’t let go of the need to control everything, the uncertainty of that circumstance or situation will lead you only to lose that control, panic, and having a bigger reaction or breakdown.
So commit to honoring your body and strengthening the connection with your higher self, the universe is conspiring in your favor and you have the power to create the life of purpose, meaning and impact, to fulfill your soul's purpose requires overcoming your fears of being seen and heard, so my advice to everyone out there is to invite your soul to step out, and to let go of living by others expectations, most importantly, to trust your inner guidance.
We all have been granted the opportunity to walk a more spiritual path, ask for support if you need one, vulnerability and humbleness for ourselves in our life often is the key to how well we can walk through life.
Much Love to you,